Gitte Stald (2008) writes a very interesting article discussing multiple relationships or characteristics of youth in Denmark and their mobile phone devices. Specific topics addressed include physical availability, experience of presence, mobile phones to keep personal logs, and social norms related to phones. I found myself asking questions many questions while reading the sections about physical availability and experience of presence.
I understand that mobile phones are part of youth identity, and I do not necessarily think phones are a bad thing. I do, however, think at times youth attachment to phones might be somewhat out of hand. The fact that some teens state that they cannot ‘live’ without their phone or ‘can’t turn it off’ causes me to worry. As I read this, I kept thinking, “It is just a phone… only a phone.” Stald (2008) states that some youth feel if they turned their phone off they would either miss something important or not be available to friends who might need them. It sounds as if these youth are very insecure or codependent on their friends (and phone). It seems at times that these devices which were meant to make life easier and a person less tied-down, are actually causing stress and challenges. I personally do not think it is healthy for anyone to always ‘be on’; down time is important for ‘recharging’ and it appears that many youth, at least based on this article, are not getting that.
The Buddhist philosophy of mindfulness or being present also came to mind while I read this article. The idea behind mindfulness is that by quieting the mind, being present in all that is going on around you, you will become more aware. Awareness brings about an inner calm; something all of us can use from time to time. Stald (2008) describes the idea(s) of presence to include a physical presence and a presence through connection via phones. I was pleased when I read, “It is simply not possible to be equally present in two places at the same time” (Stahl, 2008, p. 154). I try to explain that to my college students all the time; if they are texting in class, which many of them (try to) do, they are not able to fully comprehend and be present in class at the same time.
While I think that mobile phones are ‘handy’ especially when I need my husband to stop off at the store for something I forgot, I worry that youth of today rely too heavily upon them. Stald (2008) mentioned that to some youth their phone is an extension of their body. I truly wonder if this is a positive healthy idea.
Below is a link to some current information and data about teens and texting which I found to be interesting.
http://blog.nielsen.com/nielsenwire/online_mobile/under-aged-texting-usage-and-actual-cost/
Below is a link to some current information and data about teens and texting which I found to be interesting.
http://blog.nielsen.com/nielsenwire/online_mobile/under-aged-texting-usage-and-actual-cost/
Stald, G. (2008). Mobile Identity: Youth, identity, and mobile communication media. In D.Buckingham (Ed.), Youth, Identity, and Digital Media. Cambridge, MA: MacArthur Foundation Series (pp. 143-164). Doi:10.1162/dmal.9780262524834.143